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by Isaac » Thu Jul 04, 2024 10:21 pm
As a neutral in this whole scenario of Raj v. Wir3d and others I'd like to chip in my thoughts and opinions as a long-time player of this server, a 46ber and as an ex Senior Moderator once upon a time. I think this gives me some sort of right to state my opinion. If you care to read, please do. If you don't like it, rest assured in advance that I truly do not care about what you think.
Please also, for the sensitive keyboard warriors, remember that I'm not posting anything to annoy or trigger anyone, I'm posting my genuine and neutral opinion as someone who loves this server which I spent a vast amount of my teenage and 20s years playing. I don't know either of you guys personally, or really at all. The only caveat to my neutrality is that I would say thank you to Raj for volunteering his time as a dev, as any genuine PkHonor player should. You have my respect for that, but as you'll see, not for much else of this chaotic drama which has being allowed to ensue and fester into toxicity. So, allow me to begin.
Firstly, it may be a tough dose of reality to swallow (depending on if either of you are narcissistic) but I and many many others I am sure do not give a single damn about what has happened between you two or the groups you associate yourselves with. This server is not, and never was, about you lot and your beef so I don't understand why you keep persisting at it and clogging the forums up with these threads. WE DON'T CARE and there are much, much bigger fish to fry for PkHonor at the moment.
Secondly, if you don't like each other (which shockingly is absolutely fine because you simply cannot like everyone you meet - it's human nature) then seriously just GROW UP, block each other and move on. Block each other in-game, on Discord, whatever. When you realise just ignoring someone who's trying to get a rise out of you really is as simple as ignoring them so they get no gratification (which is what they are looking for in the first place - classic bully tactics which normally hide personal problems/flaws I might add), it might help you both to reflect and mature a little bit. I'm not saying that either of you are actually immature as I don't know you guys personally, but it's hard to rule that out with certainty given that you've both been acting like squabbling children for the past however long, and it's time for someone to say end this and move on. Releasing PMs and screenshots thinking you're some chad victim/hero (really really strange behaviour, especially if you're actually an adult IRL) is what little kids do. So please, both of you grow up and realise neither of you are really that important to this server given it's vast history. None of us are.
As Patel rightly said, and I must admit he's always pretty spot on (the guy is clearly very mature and intelligent - a rare combination), one of you needs to take the high ground because it's simple. not. that. deep.
All this frustration and we are missing the key issues going on with the server at the moment. In all my years of playing, I've never seen it in this bad of a shape and that genuinely surprises me. So my suggestion is for everyone to stop throwing mud at the wall to see what sticks and actually band together to think about ways in which we, as a COMMUNITY, can resolve the issues which PkHonor is facing at the moment.
Also, if either of you are still genuinely pissed off or annoyed and just want to cause more childish drama, it would be my genuine advice to just leave the server and forums temporarily. Take a break for a week, two weeks, a month. Work on yourself IRL and come back to the table once you've calmed down and can see that your squabbling adds nothing positive to this server and on behalf of the rest of the remaining loyal player base, we don't want or care to see it at this time.
